Her brain would likely explode, I imagine. And he's told me (and a few other relatives) that he's not sure which side of the fence he comes down on, if indeed he comes down on a side at all. rampantwonder is thrilled: he's been saying Reuben's queer for years. And the lad is definitely a catch; sweet, goofy, intelligent and cute as hell, in a muscular crocheting mountain-biker and cat-lover sort of way.

As for me, yeah, I still identify as queer. I mean, I'm a Devin- not exactly a boy, but definitely not a girl either. I use male pronouns, take testosterone and want chest surgery, but I'm not precisely a man. (Not that transmen in general aren't men, just that I'm not.) As an in-between, any relationship I have is going to be queer in some respect, and I like that. I'm not meant to be conventional, y'know?