I have always looked at sexuality as a spectrum where no one was on either end, being 100% straight or 100% gay.
While I prefer women, I have had an inkling for the last 5 years or so, that I might want to revisit the men thing. There have been male friends that I think I could possibly date and be happy with that.
When I told my girlfriend this, she did not react in the most positive way. I doubt that any of my other lesbian/dyke friends would either.
Wouldn't it be nice if rather than people knowing me as the dyke that I am, I would just be me, a sexual being. I never told any of the male friends that I was interested because I was just the token dyke. *shrug*
Thank you for saying what I feel but couldn't put in so many words.
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on 2007-03-21 07:11 pm (UTC)While I prefer women, I have had an inkling for the last 5 years or so, that I might want to revisit the men thing. There have been male friends that I think I could possibly date and be happy with that.
When I told my girlfriend this, she did not react in the most positive way. I doubt that any of my other lesbian/dyke friends would either.
Wouldn't it be nice if rather than people knowing me as the dyke that I am, I would just be me, a sexual being. I never told any of the male friends that I was interested because I was just the token dyke. *shrug*
Thank you for saying what I feel but couldn't put in so many words.