We don't have Football Sundays here, but we do have All-Dude Hockey Games. Beer is involved. :/
Tea makes everything better, this is true.
I'm not sure what made me change my mind, other than... well. Part of the reason why I didn't think I'd ever get married was that I didn't think I was wired that way, really. I thought I'd be the kind of person who'd never want to settle down or stay with one person. For all my last relationship had its moments of total fuckuperry, it did teach me that that's a possibility. It made me realize that being with one person- assuming it's the right person-makes me happy and fulfilled, and that that's what I want. It made me realize that I like stability.
I remember I was at my cousin's wedding two years ago and thinking, Yes. She and her husband make a good pair. They love the shit out of each other and they work well together and they're equals in their marriage and that is what I want. No Football Sundays, no matching towels, no fighting over what her mother said about me last Christmas- just love and commitment and arguing over who's turn it is to do the dishes.
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on 2008-11-25 05:27 pm (UTC)Tea makes everything better, this is true.
I'm not sure what made me change my mind, other than... well. Part of the reason why I didn't think I'd ever get married was that I didn't think I was wired that way, really. I thought I'd be the kind of person who'd never want to settle down or stay with one person. For all my last relationship had its moments of total fuckuperry, it did teach me that that's a possibility. It made me realize that being with one person- assuming it's the right person-makes me happy and fulfilled, and that that's what I want. It made me realize that I like stability.
I remember I was at my cousin's wedding two years ago and thinking, Yes. She and her husband make a good pair. They love the shit out of each other and they work well together and they're equals in their marriage and that is what I want. No Football Sundays, no matching towels, no fighting over what her mother said about me last Christmas- just love and commitment and arguing over who's turn it is to do the dishes.
That's pretty much it, really.